The world of sex tech is no longer just for him. While male strokers have been around for a while, interactive technology has transformed them from solo tools into gateways for shared pleasure, even across distances. The Kiiroo Onyx+ stands at the forefront of this evolution, and if you've ever been curious about how you can be a part of the experience, you're in the right place. This guide is for the woman who wants to understand, control, and connect with her partner through this innovative device, turning his pleasure into an intimate, shared adventure.
The Kiiroo Onyx+ isn't just another male masturbator; it's an interactive stroker designed to mimic the sensations of intercourse with incredible realism. For women, this opens up a new realm of possibilities for intimacy, whether you're in the same room or miles apart. It’s about more than just his orgasm; it's about mutual exploration, remote intimacy, and discovering new ways to connect sexually.
Understanding the Kiiroo Onyx+: What Makes It Interactive?
Before diving into how to use it, let's break down what the Kiiroo Onyx+ is. At its core, it's an automated male stroker. Inside its sleek casing is a soft, textured sleeve made of body-safe TPE. What sets it apart is its technology. The device contains 10 internal contracting rings that work together to create realistic stroking and tightening sensations, capable of up to 140 strokes per minute. This action can be controlled manually, but its true power lies in its connectivity.
Through the FeelConnect app, the Onyx+ can be controlled remotely from a smartphone. This is where you come in. You can take the reins, controlling the speed, intensity, and patterns of his experience. Furthermore, it can sync with other Kiiroo-enabled toys, interactive adult videos, and even VR content, creating a fully immersive sexual experience for your partner that you can direct or share.
Key Features from a Woman's Perspective
- Remote Control: The ability to control his pleasure from anywhere in the world is a game-changer for long-distance relationships or for partners who travel. It transforms passive phone sex into a dynamic, physical experience.
- Synced Play: When paired with a compatible female toy, the Onyx+ allows for a truly interactive experience. His movements can control your vibrations, and your actions can control his stroking, creating a real-time feedback loop of pleasure.
- Discreet & Quiet: One of the most praised features is its whisper-quiet motor. This allows for spontaneous and discreet fun without worrying about disturbing others.
- Shared Experiences: You can watch interactive content together and have the toy sync to the action on screen, making date night an immersive, multi-sensory event.
Your Role in the Experience: How to Control the Kiiroo Onyx+
Getting started is simple. Both you and your partner will need to download the FeelConnect app on your smartphones. Once you've created accounts and connected, he will sync his Onyx+ to his phone via Bluetooth, and you can then be invited to connect with his device.
Navigating the App and Taking Control
The app's interface is designed to be intuitive. Once connected, you'll have a control panel on your screen. You can typically use touch gestures to guide the stroking action. A slow slide of your finger might translate to a long, teasing stroke, while rapid tapping could create a series of quick, intense pulses. The power is literally at your fingertips.
This is your opportunity to play and explore. Think about what turns your partner on. Does he like slow, sensual build-ups or fast, powerful rhythms? You can tease him, edge him, and guide him to an explosive orgasm, all from your phone. The app often includes a video chat feature, allowing you to see his reactions in real-time, making the connection even more intimate and powerful.
To make the experience even smoother and more pleasurable for him, lubrication is essential. The Onyx+ sleeve is made from TPE, which means a high-quality water-based lubricant is a must. Oil or silicone-based lubes can degrade the material over time.
For a session with an interactive masturbator like the Kiiroo Onyx+, you need a lubricant that performs flawlessly. The BOMBEX Natural Water Based Lube is an ideal choice. Its advanced, long-lasting hydration ensures a consistently slick glide, which is crucial for the automated movements of the Onyx+. The formula is also perfectly pH-balanced, which is important for overall intimate health. Because it’s a natural lubricant, made from 100% plant-based ingredients, it’s incredibly gentle and won't cause irritation, allowing for longer, more comfortable play sessions. Most importantly, as a pure water based lube, it's completely safe for all sex toys, ensuring the TPE sleeve of the Onyx+ remains in perfect condition.
Beyond Long-Distance: Using the Onyx+ Together
The Kiiroo Onyx+ isn't just for couples who are physically apart. It can be a thrilling addition to your sex life even when you're in the same room, adding a new layer of control and sensation to your foreplay and intercourse.
Creative Ways to Play Together
- Foreplay Enhancement: Use the Onyx+ on him while you focus on other forms of intimacy, like kissing, manual stimulation, or oral sex. You can control the device with one hand while using the other to caress him, creating an overload of sensations.
- Tease and Deny: Take control and engage in a fun power-play dynamic. You can bring him to the edge of orgasm and then ease off, building anticipation and making his final release even more powerful.
- Paired with a Female Toy: This is where interactive play truly shines. Consider a toy that can sync with the Onyx+ for a shared experience. While he enjoys the stroking sensations you control, you can indulge in targeted stimulation.
For instance, a wearable vibrator allows for hands-free pleasure, letting you focus on the connection. The BOMBEX Butterfly Dildo is designed for exactly this kind of dynamic play. Its dual-layer stimulation targets both internal and clitoral pleasure points simultaneously. The hands-free design means you can wear it comfortably while you move, allowing you to be fully present in the moment with your partner. The whisper-quiet motor won't overpower the mood, and its body-safe silicone construction ensures comfort and safety. As a Butterfly Vibrator, it’s built for powerful, immersive pleasure that can mirror the intensity you’re creating for him.
Enhancing the Experience: Tips for Her
To make your sessions with the Kiiroo Onyx+ truly unforgettable, communication and creativity are key. Here are some final tips to elevate your shared experience.
Communication is Everything
Talk to your partner before, during, and after. Ask him what feels good. Is the speed right? Does he want more pressure? His feedback will help you become an expert at pleasing him with the device. Likewise, share what you're enjoying about the experience. Hearing your excitement will amplify his arousal.
Explore Different Sensations
Don’t just stick to one pattern. Variety is the spice of life—and sex. Use the app to create different rhythms. Start slow and sensual, build to a frantic pace, and then pull back again. The journey is just as important as the destination.
While he's immersed in the sensations of the Onyx+, it's the perfect time to explore your own pleasure points. Focusing on clitoral or nipple stimulation can create a symphony of arousal. For this, a toy that is both versatile and discreet can be a powerful tool in your arsenal.
The Doris Clitoral & Nipple Toys are perfect for this kind of parallel play. Their genius AirPods-inspired design makes them incredibly discreet and easy to handle. These versatile nipple toys come with three interchangeable heads, allowing you to switch between soft, targeted, or broad stimulation for either your clitoris or nipples. While you're controlling his pleasure with the Onyx+, you can use the Doris nipple vibrator to send waves of pleasure through your own body, creating a shared crescendo of orgasms.
Conclusion: A New Era of Shared Pleasure
The Kiiroo Onyx+ is more than just a high-tech toy; it's a platform for connection. For women, it offers a unique and powerful way to participate in and control a partner's pleasure, fostering intimacy, communication, and sexual exploration. Whether you're navigating a long-distance relationship or looking to add an exciting new dimension to your in-person intimacy, this interactive masturbator opens the door to a world of shared orgasms and deeper connection. By embracing the technology and communicating openly, you can turn his solo experience into our unforgettable adventure.
