Post-orgasm, the blood that has flooded to the vulva and vagina recedes and the rest of your body returns to its “normal state.” That includes the loss of increased sensitivity in genital organs (although numbness may replace it), and a return to the vulva’s natural appearance and colors.
The good news for those with vulvas: many do not need the “refractory period” that penis-owners require; that’s why the former are often quickly ready for another go-round, while the latter need time to recharge.
Where the Pussy Pump Fits Into This Picture
One of the constants you probably noticed in the last section is that the key to optimal sexual pleasure is an increased flow of blood to the genitals. The pussy pump is designed to encourage and maximize that blood flow. That means the clitoris, vagina and vulva are faster to respond, and are more sensitive than usual, during sex play.
For most people, sexual stimulation and activity feels incredible – but a session with the pump beforehand makes it even better.
How to Use a Pussy Pump
There are many very reliable models on the market. Whether you choose a Satisfyer Pro Pump, Pipedream Fetish Fantasy, Womanizer or Doc Johnson pussy pump (just a sample of the best pussy pumps on the market), they generally work in the same way.
The first step is preparation, so a good seal around the genitals can be ensured. It’s best to trim public hair where the chamber will be placed, and you should apply a water-based lube around the rim of the chamber. Also make sure the air release valve or mechanism (it’s usually an easy-to-use quick release valve) is tightened.
Now that you’re ready, place the chamber (some call it a suction cup) around the proper area so it seals firmly to the skin. Chamber size matters, since vaginal pumps and clitoral pumps are designed for different parts of the genitals.
It’s time to start the “pussy pumping” and get your blood flowing. Squeeze the bulb until you start to feel suction developing; you’ll want to keep one hand on the chamber the first time or two you squeeze, until you’re sure the seal is tight. Once you see your labia start to swell, you should begin to feel an unusual but arousing sensation in your genital area.
Don’t pump too much; you’re not inflating a bicycle tire! Go slowly, one pump at a time. Once you notice and feel the suction, only squeeze the bulb once or twice more. As you get comfortable using the pussy pump, you may want to leave the chamber in place for a few minutes, 5-10 minutes at the most. If you feel any actual pain, or are ready to remove the chamber, just hit the quick release valve on the pump once and the chamber will come right off. (Some pumps have a second release valve on the chamber itself.)
You’re now ready to enjoy your newly-sensitive genital area. You may want to relax for a minute or two, however, to let blood flow resume normally. You’ll still be extremely sensitive, but the area will be dry due to the action of the vacuum pump. Using lube may be a good idea when you’re ready to play.
Don’t be afraid to get imaginative when using a pussy pump. Not only can the device get you ready for sex play, it can become a part of it. Watching the process of genital engorgement may be a turn-on for both you and your partner; at the more extreme end, there are BDSM possibilities as well. (We’re not going to list them – as we suggested, get imaginative!)
Your pump should be cleaned thoroughly with soap and water after each use, and stored in a dry, cool place separate from other sex toys. Be sure that the device is waterproof, though, if you plan to submerge it or get any of the electronic components wet.
Types of Pussy Pumps
You already know that these devices are available in different sizes designed to increase blood flow to the clitoris, the vaginal opening or the entire vulva. If you’re willing to spend more money, you can find pussy pumps with interchangeable chambers to fit different areas of the genitals, and clit pumps which effectively simulate oral sex.
Those aren’t the only choices you may see at your favorite toy store or website.
The simplest pumps consist of nothing more than a chamber, hose and squeezable bulb. Most chambers are made from plastic or similar materials, but higher-priced ones may be made from medical-grade acrylic.
If you take a step up in price, you can find models with air pressure gauges and/or squeezable handles; many people find the handle makes the device easier to operate, and perfectionists (or techies) may want to measure the optimal amount of pressure needed to sensitize each part of the vulva. Some units are accompanied by a separate vibe to complete the pleasure package, and others have ticklers built into the chamber to tease while they also engorge.
You find a hand pump difficult or clumsy to use? Look even further and you’ll discover electronic pussy pumps with lots of bells and whistles. They automatically do the pumping for you, with preset modes for differing amounts of pressure inside the chamber. Some (like high-end units from Kink Pumped) also have vibrating functions, allowing you to fully enjoy the benefits of an engorged clitoris or vulva while you’re increasing their sensitivity. Electronic and automatic vibrating pumps are usually USB rechargeable.
Is It Safe?
Modern pussy pumps are designed to be safe. Their quick release triggers allow you to immediately discontinue their use if necessary, and they are generally manufactured from high-quality or medical-grade materials. When shopping, be sure that chambers are free of phthalates (known to pose cancer risks), and that your lube is water-based and parabens-free.
The first time you use a pussy pump the feeling may be somewhat uncomfortable, but it’s simply a matter of getting used to a new and unfamiliar feeling. You won’t be damaging your genitals. If you feel actual pain, it’s likely that the pump is sucking on sensitive skin above or below your target area because you’ve placed the chamber incorrectly. Let the sore area calm down, reposition the chamber and give it another try.
Do be careful, though. Go one pump at a time, don’t keep pumping once you’ve established a nice, strong vacuum, and disconnect the chamber if you feel any pain. Also, check with your doctor first if you have a history of vulvar health issues.
As long as you take those sensible precautions, your pussy pump can heighten sexual pleasure well beyond the “normal” experiences of sex play. It’s well worth placing on your wishlist.